Tuesday, June 7, 2011

have you ever been bullied?

oh my gosh.. SOOOOOOO ridiculous!! i went to get boba with jenn and gennie last night and a group of girls came in. two of the girls were just normal, but the other two were totally trouble makers and trying to start something with us. DUMB!!!! we were totally just minding our own business, and we are SO normal looking. why would they even bother us?! twice, they shouted obnoxious things at us, and both times we just ignored them. i was facing the window, and they moved outside to sit at the table right next to the window, so the meaner of the two mean girls sat directly in front of me and gave me dirty looks the entire time. this went on for about 20 minutes. she was trying to provoke me/us, and i just didn't want to give her the satisfaction of thinking we were scared or intimated. i didn't tell jenn or gennie what was going on, and i didn't ask to move seats. i just kept my cool and continued to chat with my friends and still smiled and laughed like a normal person. it was seriously like an episode of the dog whisperer. haha. she was totally trying to be alpha dog, and i was cesar just acting like i don't care and not showing any fear anytime she mad dogged me. whenever i would look up at her and see her squinting her eyes at me, i would just blankly stare for a second or two and then look away. what else was i supposed to do? it's like she wanted me to either get scared or give her a dirty look back so we could get into a fight. haha. how stupid and immature. nothing like this has ever happened to me. i was so riled up when i was telling them about it afterwards. haha. it was SO dumb. but maybe i'm dumb for letting it bother me this much. haha. i just prayed for her after. what would YOU do in that situation?

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

OH MY GOODNESS that is ridiculous! I would have stuck my tongue out at her jk. Who was she anyways and was she 12 or what?

Papa said...

I'm proud of you. You handled the situation perfectly (including the prayer).

RiAnne said...

Yes, I've been bullied... my older sisters were mean to me growing up!

I hope that bully picks up some better social skills really soon. She's going to mess with the wrong girl and will have to learn the hard way!

karen said...

jenn- no offense to our dear baby cousin, but imagine a group of raquels.

daddy- thanks! i guess my parents taught me well?

rianne- really? sowwwwwwwy!